Just 'be' ..Let the essence stay, Unpretentious, true, real, you.
Let the essence stay, allow the core to exist, sprinkle 'delicacy' and step back, wait, let the other absorb and then let the eyes do the talking ~ that goes for Tea.
When infused, let the 'Two leaf & a bud' speak rather than 'pot pourri'.
Let it not be a pale yellow liquid but a cup that breathes life into you.